25个问题问出孩子在小学里的情况

一般孩子放学回家，你想知道他在学校的情况，你可能会问:”今天在学校里怎么样啊？“ 孩子可能一个词回答你：还行。 一般。就那样。

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如何能从孩子口中获得更多的信息呢？一位美国妈妈设计了一套问题来问孩子，发现孩子回答起这些问题来，可以透露很多学校信息，对感兴趣的问题更是滔滔不绝。你也来试试吧。

25 WAYS TO ASK YOUR KIDS “SO HOW WAS SCHOOL TODAY?” WITHOUT ASKING THEM “SO HOW WAS SCHOOL TODAY?”

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  • #1.  What was the best thing that happened at school today?  (What was the worst thing that happened at school today?)
  • #2.  Tell me something that made you laugh today.
  • #3.  If you could choose who would you like to sit by in class?  (Who would you NOT want to sit by in class?  Why?)
  • #4.  Where is the coolest place at the school?
  • #5.  Tell me a weird word that you heard today.  (Or something weird that someone said.)
  • #6.  If I called your teacher tonight what would she tell me about you?
  • #7.  How did you help somebody today?
  • #8.  How did somebody help you today?
  • #9.  Tell me one thing that you learned today.
  • #10.  When were you the happiest today?
  • #11.  When were you bored today?
  • #12.  If an alien spaceship came to your class and beamed up someone who would you want them to take?
  • #13.  Who would you like to play with at recess that you’ve never played with before?
  • #14.  Tell me something good that happened today.
  • #15.  What word did your teacher say most today?
  • #16.  What do you think you should do/learn more of at school?
  • #17.  What do you think you should do/learn less of at school?
  • #18.  Who in your class do you think you could be nicer to?
  • #19.  Where do you play the most at recess?
  • #20.  Who is the funniest person in your class?  Why is he/she so funny?
  • #21.  What was your favorite part of lunch?
  • #22.  If you got to be the teacher tomorrow what would you do?
  • #23.  Is there anyone in your class that needs a time out?
  • #24.  If you could switch seats with anyone in the class who would you trade with?  Why?
  • #25.  Tell me about three different times you used your pencil today at school.

看不懂？我给翻译一下哈：

  • 1.今天学校里发生的最好的事情是什么？（今天学校里发生的最糟糕的事情是什么？）
  • 2.告诉我今天有什么让你觉得好笑的事情吧！
  • 3.如果让你选，你愿意坐在哪位同学的旁边？（你不愿意坐在哪位同学的旁边？为什么？）
  • 4. 学校里最酷的地方是哪里？
  • 5.跟我说说你今天听到的一个奇怪的词语吧！（或者谁做了什么奇怪的事情吧！）
  • 6.如果今天晚上我给老师打电话，你觉得老师会跟我说点什么呢？
  • 7.你今天给谁提供帮助了吗？
  • 8.今天谁帮助了你吗？
  • 9.告诉我你今天学到的一点东西吧
  • 10.你今天觉得最高兴的是什么时候呀？
  • 11.你今天觉得最无聊的是什么时候呀？
  • 12.如果有一艘外星飞船突然降临你的教室，想要带走一个地球人，你希望外星人选谁？
  • 13.如果课间休息的时候让你挑一个以前从来没有一起玩过的小朋友一起玩，你想选谁呢？
  • 14.告诉我今天学校里发生了什么好事情。
  • 15.今天你们老师说的最多的一句话是什么呀？
  • 16.你觉得学校里应该再多做/学点什么事儿？
  • 17.你觉得学校里应该再少做/学点什么事儿？
  • 18.你觉得你应该对班级里哪个同学更友好一点？
  • 19.课间休息的时候你在什么地方玩的时间最长呀？
  • 20.你们班级里最有趣的人是谁？为什么他/她那么有趣？
  • 21.午饭里什么东西最好吃？
  • 22.如果明天由你来当老师，你想做什么呢？
  • 23.你觉得你们班哪位同学需要站墙角受罚？
  • 24.如果允许你随便挑一位同学换座位，你想和谁换？为什么？
  • 25.告诉我你今天用铅笔干什么了？请说三个不同的场景。

这位妈妈反馈说：孩子们对12/15/21号问题的回答是她最喜欢的。你也试试吧，看自己喜欢哪个问题的答案。

有些妈妈把这些问题做成小条子，每天抽出一个让孩子回答，也有让孩子随机选个数字，然后让孩子书面给出答案。

我迫不及待要在自家孩子身上试试了。 😆