上篇文章讲到孩子一般不愿回答家长泛泛而问的关于学校的问题，所以有心的家长需要问具体一些，需要让孩子考虑一下，不能一个词就可以打发你的。但是那一套问题是对小学生更管用的，到了中学，孩子们就更惜字如金了，你的有些看起来很天真的问题，他/她也会不屑一顾的。所以这个妈妈趁热打铁，推出了可以用来询问青少年（中学生）的25个问题。
这些问题是：
- #1. Where in the school do you hang out the most? (Like a particular hall, classroom, parking lot, etc.) Where in the school do you never hang out? 你最喜欢呆在学校的哪个地方（哪个走廊，教室，停车场，等等）
- #2. What would your school be better with? What would your school be better without? 你觉得学校哪方面可以做得更好，哪方面不好（没了更好）？
- #3. If you were a teacher what class would you teach? What class would be the worst to teach? Why? 如果你是个老师的话，你会在课堂上教授什么？ 那门课是最不好教的？
- #4. What was the coolest (saddest, funniest, scariest) thing that you saw today. 今天对你来说最酷（伤心，好笑，可怕）的事情是什么？
- #5. Tell me one thing that you learned today. 告诉我一件你今天学到了的东西
- #6. If your day at school today was a movie what movie would it be? 如果你今天在学校里的生活如同电影的话，这部电影会是什么样的？
- #7. Besides walking to their next classes, what else do people do in the halls in between classes? 课间除了走到下一个教室外，其他学生在走廊里还做了什么事情？
- #8. Who do you think you could be nicer to? 你觉得你应该对谁更好些？
- #9. What is your easiest class? What is your hardest class? OR What class are your learning the most in? What class are you learning the least in? 你最早的一堂课是什么？你觉得学到最多的一堂课是什么？你觉得哪堂课你学到的最少？
- #10. If they played music in the halls at school what would everyone want them to play over the loudspeaker? 如果有人在走廊里播放音乐，你觉得其他人想让他们用喇叭放出来吗？
- #11. If you could read minds what teachers mind would you read? What classmates mind would you read? Whose mind would you NOT want to read? 如果你有能力知道别人在想什么，你想知道老师在想什么吗？你想知道同学们在想什么吗？你会不想知道某个同学在想什么吗？
- #12. If today had a theme song what would it be? 如果今天有主题歌的话，应该是哪首歌？
- #13. Which class has your favorite group of students in it? Which class has the worst group of students? 哪个班有你你最喜欢的一组同学？哪个班有你最不喜欢的一组同学？
- #14. What do you think you should do more of at school? What do you think you should do less of? 你觉得自己在学校应该再多做些什么？ 你觉得自己在学校应该再少做些什么？
- #15. What are the top 3 (or 5) things that you hear people say in the halls? 大家在走廊里最喜欢讨论的3（5）件事儿是什么？
- #16. What do you think the most important part of school is? 你觉得学校最重要的部分是什么？
- #17. Tell me one question that you had today…even if it wasn’t answered….actually, especially if it wasn’t answered… 告诉我你今天问过的一个问题是什么，即使没人回答，实际上，我想知道你没有得到回答的一个问题
- #18. What class has the most cute boys/girls in it? 哪个课堂有最可爱的男生/女生？
- #19. If an alien space ship landed at your school who would you like them to beam aboard and take back to their home planet? 如果有个外星人飞船降落在学校里要带走一个人回到他们的星球的话，你希望他们带哪个人？
- #20. Who did you help today? Who helped you today? 你今天帮助人了吗？他是谁？
- #21. If you could be invisible for the day at school what would you do? 如果你今天能变成隐形人，你准备在学校里干什么？
- #22. What part of the day do you look forward to? What part of the day do you dread? 你今天觉得哪一部分很让人期待，哪一部分觉得很沉闷？
- #23. What would you change about school lunch? 你觉得学校的午饭需要做什么调整？
- #24. What classmate is most likely to be arrested, made president, become a millionaire, be in movies, let loose a flock of wild chickens in the library, etc. 哪位同学应该被逮捕，选为总统，成为大富豪，拍成电影，在图书馆里制造噪音？
- #25. If you had to go to only one class every day which class would it be? 如果每天只需要上一门课的话，你会选哪门？
- #26. Tell me one thing you read at school today. 告诉我一件你今天在学校读到的东西。
- #27. If your day at school was an emoticon which one would it be? 你今天的表情符会是哪一种？
- #28. What do you think your teachers talked about in the faculty room today after school? 你觉得老师会在教职工办公室里如何评价今天的课堂？
对这些问题我还真没有信心，准备对着我们家老大试一试。
我问老大：”如果你是老师的话，你愿意教哪门课？“ 我家老大回答：”历史？“ 我问：”为啥？“ 她回答：”没人喜欢历史课啊。这样我就不用做什么了“。我觉得奇怪：”为啥没人喜欢历史课呢？我觉得历史课就像听故事一样“。她回答：”可是我们的老师只会长篇大论，很无聊的“。
还有这个问题：”如果外星人飞船降落到你们学校，要带走一个人，你想让把谁带走？“ 老大回答：”我最不喜欢的老师“。我接着问：”教哪门的？“ 想了一下回答：“嗯，目前还没有。” “要不要带走某个学生？” “那就带走最调皮捣蛋的那个。” “如果是我的话，我觉得把我带走也不错啊，去外星经历一番。” “唉， 我不想去。” “不过最好把我再送回来，要不然我爸爸妈妈会伤心的。” “他们不会把你送回来的。你就别想了。” 看来我家姑娘比我更脚踏实地。 😆
确实有效哈。你也试试吧。